Who is Gautama Buddha

Tuesday, 12 April 2011

What are the Causes and Effects of conflict

Conflict is the disagreement of thoughts or ideas among 2 or more individual or group, The causes of conflict and its aftermath could be negative or positive depending to individual or group ways of taking the situation. 
                                 The causes of conflict and its effect could vary  due to a common cause between two parties governed by misunderstanding, assertion of power, ignorance to needs and feelings of other person, disagreement over facts and opinion, fighting over perceived value, not matching expectation of other individual or group, and most commonly trying to help or give advise .
           Misunderstanding is commonly caused due to rumors and pre-imaging which leads to parties guessing about each other leading to confusion and feeling of mistrust and biased prejudices. Its after effects could be a disaster leading to violent actions sometimes leading to death of one party.The other side could be building a better bond among 2 parties.
                     Assesrtion of power has always been a reason of greatest conflicts between 2 individuals, groups or countries, religion, tribes. This is one kind of conflict which evolved from the day man evolved . Its in Human Nature to lead and be a leader, Assertion of power cannot be compromised easily untill both parties want to fallback or runaway from conflict. The effect of this conflict has always been the same " To rule one should be ruler and other should be follower". One party is always crushed by the other.
                                                                   Ignorance to needs and feelings of other individual concerns friends, family and people around you, these people have a certain set of expectation which is somehow broken by another party. The breaking of expectation could be fatal leading to complete boycott of another party, or it could make the friendship more good.
                                                         Conflict of Disagreement over facts and opinion could be positive and negative .This is the most common type of conflict, the better opinion is always appreciated and wins the course, However the other party is not in agreement and tries to prove his points though many possible ways could be dangerous aswell. Sometimes people really go too far to prove their point and end up loosing everything, even loosing life for an opinion.
                                                      Conflict of fighting over perceived value, set of rules among two parties is very unanimous and unpredictable, it depends upon the individual source of thinking, cultural values, religion, country, even person personality. The consciquences  is devastation, getting physical, abusive, violent is common . This conflict doesn't have a positive aspect at all, it leads to enemity for ages, permanent rivalry, which is not so easily forgotten. 
                                                     Last but not the least Trying to help and advise is one of the major causes of disagreement between 2 different parties which is maximun time between 2 different age groups. This set of conflict is commonly seen among parents and kids, student and teacher. Some times the situation becomes really bad leading one advised party to act very noobishly and do silly acts of Homicide or trying to hurt the parents or teacher by doing something bad, but the idea is to defend himself or herself. It has positive consciquences aswell, which leads to making the advised party to be better. 
                             Thus concluding all aspects of conflicts and their effects entirely depend upon the two parties that how far they are really willing to go with their conflict, Conflict is bad but it sometimes is also good. We humans get into conflict and evolve our ways of thinking and approach towards human understandings. It is through the old conflicts that we learn to live life more properly without conflicts, learning how not to make a conflict and understand the results. Therefore Humans Stay humans by getting involved into conflicts and by solving their conflicts so as they live life peacefully and with harmony.

What are The Causes and Effects of conflict

Tuesday, 5 April 2011

†šuÇÇ£šš†™ How can success be defined

Success is the virtue by which a person gains a certain kind of respect by accomplishing the work considered by him of Social Diginity , and it is done by excelling in the work or executing the task in hand in the best possible way, thus setting an example for others, so as they can follow it , appreciate it. Success can be categorized into 6 different types depending upon the person set of goals and expectations to what he or she considers as SUCCESS. it can be Puritan, Materialistic, Power, Spiritual, Contributor, Escapist.
                                       Puritan way is the way of proving yourself, Here we depend upon our actions and set up standards, and every time you prove to some task you add that as your achievement giving it sense of worthiness, and its never the end, once you accomplished a task, there will be more of it.
                                     Materialistic on the other hand is gaining luxury and status, It is something which governs our current society, people who have more money are considered to be most successful. 
                                    However Power category is to gain as much control as possible Its like politicians gaining control of society managers managing a company.
                                   On the contrary Spiritual is completely different from Power and Materialistic  it is to remove your temptations and transcend in present. It resists desires for material gratification, and instead chooses to be attached to spiritual realm,
                                  Contributor is some one who has made our society and are making it more better, they rejoice contributing and consider it as their success if people live life more properly, In short they tend to create a better world for other people and future generations. In some way for some people being able to Give back is the most rewarding way of life.
                                An escapist is someone who believes in having as much fun as possible and with peak experiences. these people believe in life as one big opportunity to enjoy.These people are most happening people and they are always in search of fun, humor and its endless.    

                           Thus concluding everyone want to be a successful man depending upon their defination of success and every one wants to be successfull throught life and not in parts. Thus SUCCESS is defined when we define ourselves.